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Burnout is one of
the words that seem to define this moment in history. No longer an unusual
event, it has become part of a normal life cycle, along with midlife crisis,
stress, and serious chronic illness, all of which have connections with burnout.
And rather than being a one-off event, it can recur again and again in different
forms as we grapple with certain fundamental issues. It often begins in a single
sphere of our lives, but it can tend to spread everywhere.
Burnout happens to
all kinds of people. We have had the privilege ofworking with, talking deeply
to, or corresponding with hundreds of men and women who have burnt out. We
include clients, students, course participants, friends, colleagues and members
of various relevant networks. Together we explored what it all meant and where
it was leading them.
Their occupations
when they burnt out include: airline planner, artist, banking lawyer, chemist,
consultant, engineer, geophysicist, managing director, overseas development
worker, psychotherapist, singer, social worker, teacher and writer. Their ages
at the time of burnout ranged between late twenties and mid fifties. Several of
them burnt out more than once.
Individuals who are
highly prone to burnout can be among the most creative, dynamic, loving, and
focused people in our society. They have driven themselves all their lives,
often in the service of others, and are now having to learn a new way to drive
and a new direction to drive in.
The classic signs
of burnout are:
 | A growing
emotional, mental and/or physical exhaustion which isn't alleviated by
sleeping |
 | An increasing
sense of being cut off from ourselves and other people |
 | A decreasing
ability to be effective at doing what we have always done, either at work or
at home. |
Of these,
exhaustion is the most defining characteristic. Each of us has our own
individual pattern of burnout, and there is a range of symptoms that can alert
us to the fact that we have begun to burn out. These include:
 | Extreme
tiredness; inability to relax or have a restful sleep; emotional deadness;
chronic anger; high self-criticism; loss of appetite for food, sex, life;
feelings of being trapped, distant, disillusioned, cynical, hollow,
pleasureless and humourless |
 | Poor attention;
speeding up without increased effectiveness |
 | An increase in
watching TV, drinking alcohol, eating junk food, shopping, playing computer
games, using Internet chat rooms, pursuing casual sex or seeking any form of
escape that is addictive |
 | A closing down
from family, friends, colleagues, bosses and/or clients |
 | An increase in
physical problems ranging from back problems, heart pains, head pains, frozen
shoulder or loss of libido to chronic fatigue/ME, adrenal and thyroid
problems, irritable bowel syndrome, post-viral illnesses, viral meningitis and
even heart attacks. |
We are tired, we
are angry, we can't relax, we are often in physical pain, there seems little
point to anything we are doing, and we don't like ourselves or anyone else very
much. Indeed, we hardly recognize ourselves as the people we used to be. Yet
those of us headed for serious 'burnout just battle on and on. We over-ride all
our danger signals and work harder and harder, until one day we stop and listen
and take action – or we become so incapacitated that we have no choice but to
stop.
If we are forced
finally to stop work or other activities for what we tell ourselves will be a
few days. Even though we may never have taken more than a day or two of sick
leave in our lives, we sometimes find that time stretching into weeks, months,
even into a decision to resign. We may be seriously ill, emotionally empty,
exhausted beyond belief.
We are bound to
think we have done something wrong, or that something is wrong with us, or that
the world has treated us badly. Yet, burnout can be so powerfully transformative
that it is a signal, not of failure, but of a challenge to create a new way of
life. In fact, burnout is probably the best thing that ever happened to us. If
we cooperate with what burnout is teaching us, a vast creative potential can be
redirected to benefit not only us but also our loved ones, organizations, and
society as a whole.
Recognising the impact of health on performance, Dianna holds
qualifications in nutritional and health fields that enable her to
identify and resolve health issues affecting business and personal
goals.
For the
Tops Tips on what to do for burnout
send an email to
bs@futurevisions.org
with "MWS Burnout Tips" in the subject and nothing in the body
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